Oh, marriage! “Love and marriage go together like a horse and a carriage”, isn’t that how it goes? Although getting married is the right thing to do, keeping thinks O.K. may sometimes be kind of hard. Husbands and wives both make mistakes, and from that they grow together and sometimes have fun joking about it later on. It’s difficult but it’s the most wonderful journey you’ll ever make. When getting married, it’s very, very important to have a sense of humor that will help you get through, for better or for worse.
Details are everything in a marriage, as they are in everyday life. Learning to avoid doing those things that get your lady on the screaming mood can guarantee you quiet evenings.
Don’t try to deny it! When you did something wrong, just admit it, or she will always remember it. If you admit it, she’ll just go over it and everything will be just fine.
All human beings have bad days. And a woman that has to work, clean the house, cook and stay gorgeous can have a lot of bad days. You want to be at peace or you want to be right? Choose wisely.
Scientists argue whether women or men are better communicators. The truth is women do speak twice as much as men. But, also, you wife wants you to be her best friend, so try to listen to what she is saying, and also to teach her how to avoid the kind of details that are too girlish.
Sometimes a wise man will only say “Yes, dear”. That’s not because he’s weak, but because he knows a good marriage is the one where each of the partners concedes for the sake of the other. Love is beautiful but can be hard at times.
Women tend to be undecided, or maybe your lady just doesn’t really care where you go to eat as long as you eat together. Choose carefully: sometimes tacos will do it, but from time to time you should take her to that fancy restaurant and get a bottle of that fine tasting wine that makes her smile.
Don’t fool yourself. She knows for sure you sometimes are very childish. Though don’t exaggerate with that type of behavior, or she’ll think you have become an irresponsible man.
You know women can become real beasts when they’re mad. And they don’t even have to be body builders for that. They can invent new ways of torture every day, like not making your lunchbox or not talking to you. Did you say your lady talks too much? Wait until you see how you feel about her not talking to you at all.
Yes, there are moments when she seems absurd. Want to avoid these? Just ask her about how her work day was and then say the magic words: “I love you! What can I do to make your day better?” She’ll just be dismantled.
When you love someone very much, each moment you spend away seems like a whole year. So her being sad because of you leaving isn’t so unusual.
Meltdown situation! You better grab a spoon and be ready to spend the rest of the night standing in the middle of the kitchen, talking about that weird dream she had. You are the best friend of your wife, aren’t you?
The biggest mistake you can do after getting married is believing that all work is over. Well, marriage is a common struggle: each day you grow and try to be better for the one you love. This also includes going to the gym, reading and improving your dancing skills. Believe me, the lust in her eyes will make it worth it!
If you don’t listen, there will appear some friend or work mate that will. And you don’t want this to happen. If you love her and want her by your side forever, then listen to her, talk to her and make her feel like she’s the whole world to you. Don’t worry, you’ll be her whole world too.
Well, the bad thing when married is you cannot “unsubscribe” from an angry wife. Just try to do that on social media and you’ll get the main role in a reality show as soon as you get home. Good luck with that, buddy!
Trust is vital to any relationship, so trust in a marriage is as important as love. Sometimes you just have to be honest and hope for the best. Don’t forget jealousy can ruin your story, no matter how lovely it began.
Doing all kind of small work can be annoying, but if you never say “No”, you wife will know how much you respect and appreciate her for all that she does for your family.
Yes, marry you best friend: that girl that you can truly be yourself with. A wife should be the best friend you also want to have kids with. This way, you are guaranteed that no matter what, you’ll have a friend during you old days.
Sometimes we blow it up. Happens to both men and women, so it’s O.K. Guess what? She’ll be mad like for the next 5 minutes. You know her the best so you’ll find a way to make her less upset. But don’t make a habit out of this.
And caring, and loving, and raising kids. Marriage is so complex and so wonderful that is very difficult to explain in just one sentence. It can also be a lifetime nightmare, so choose carefully who you want to spend the rest of your life with.
Social Media can be a real burden today and online socializing has destroyed a lot of marriages. Don’t exaggerate the amount of time you spend online. Choose to stay with your family, to go camping, to keep a balance between real life and internet fun.
Women can be pretty ritualistic but don’t worry. As times go by you’ll learn to do things differently and she’ll learn to relax.
All men are tough, but when your 5 years old girl asks you to answer that pink toy phone, you just answer it. Not to mention all of those cheesy movies you’ll go to on Valentine’s Day, her birthday and your wedding anniversary. Well, that’s what real men do: love their family!