We all know that breaking up is something nobody enjoys, especially after a long time relationship. Sometimes you get tired of talking about what’s wrong in your relationship and you try to make it work but it just doesn’t feel right. When you can’t fix it you just get to the conclusion that there’s nothing else you can do about it.
There’s no recipe for a perfect relationship to follow and if you both feel like it’s not going to work out, the future won’t be great for either of you. Forcing what isn’t making sense anymore won’t be a solution. We found some signs that prove your relationship isn’t going to last long and it’s time to think about letting it go.
No Communication
Not talking to your partner is a way to avoid fights, but it will also put too much pressure on both of you until it’s too late.
Not By Your Side
Your significant other should be by your side when you are in a bad place as it is when you are your best self. They should be there for you when you’re sad or stressed and so should you.
No balance
Do you care too much and try to make it work while the other isn’t doing anything? If your loved one doesn’t take control in making your relationship work, it means they don’t care as much as you do.
You’re Not Intimate Anymore
If you’ve stopped being intimate with each other, it will make you feel unloved. Again, communication with your partner is important, because you should talk about what’s not working anymore.
Honesty
A very important thing in your relationship is to be honest with each other. Through honesty, your partner will know and trust you.
Empathy
You both have to be empathetic if you want your relationship to work. Empathy makes your significant other feel appreciated and understood.
Future
If you are in a long relationship, you should talk about future. Don’t force him to think about marrying if he doesn’t want to talk about it.
You Don’t Feel Loved
This is a difficult matter that should be approached when you talk with your partner. The most important thing in a relationship has to be love and if you’re not getting this feeling, then it’s pretty much over.
Common Interests
Some relationships are based on common interests or beliefs but as time goes by, one or both of you change. Although an independent interest is good in your relationship, assess if it breaks you apart from each other or not.
Being Faithful To Each Other
Being unfaithful to each other is going to ruin the trust that your relationship is based on. Flirting is also a form of cheating because it means the person seeks someone else’s attention.
Positive Or Negative
Ask yourself if this relationship is making your life better and improved or not. If you feel like it has become a burden, then you should think about putting an end to it.
Families
Your family or friends don’t like to spend time with both of you? The people that know and care about you will expect a lot from your partner and if they have a bad impression about your partner, then your relationship will not last much.
Spending Some Time Together
Media Source
Even though being independent is a good thing, you should pay attention to spend some time together alone or with friends. This way you’ll talk, interact and build a better relationship. If not, your relationship will soon end.
Jealousy
This is an issue that involves both of you since one of you worries too much about the other taking to other people and the other worries about mentioning other people. Jealousy limits the freedom and brings tension between you two. Solve it through talking and if your partner won’t stop it, you should talk some more.
Boring
If you think your relationship got boring, then you should try to change the routine. Try to do something new together, visit other places. Breaking up because of being bored isn’t quite the real issue, it’s a different thing probably hidden under this one.
Trying to Change You
It’s stressing when they complain about the way you are, although they are with you for the exact reason. If your partner cannot accept you for who you are and doesn’t like you when you are yourself, then it’s better to break up.
Not A Keeper
If you are in a long term relationship but you don’t feel like your partner is a keeper, try to discuss this issue by bringing up a few hints about future plans. If your partner isn’t up for it, then you should let him/her go.
Correcting Each Other
Being always corrected when you are wrong makes couples grow apart. You will feel stupid and uncomfortable around each other because of that.
You Fight
You’re like cats and dogs, always fighting over nonsense. You should try to get some counseling if you really love each other, in order to learn more about managing your anger and frustrations, before it’s too late.
No Gifts
We’re talking about gifts on important dates like birthday or anniversary. Your partner and you should give each other gifts because it brightens your moods and shows that you remembered something which is important to your significant other.
The Ex
If your partner is still into his/her ex but also loves you, it’s not the best relationship you’d want to be in. Even though your partner is attracted to you and treats you the way you wanted, the ex issue should be a sign to let your partner go. You should be the only one who matters and being in a triangle of love is not good.
It Won’t Work
Everyone is telling you that it won’t work and when they show you the issues that should be bothering you, you might want to consider listening to their advice. Being blindly in love is difficult in seeing the wrong things in a relationship.
Too Much Criticism
Media Source
You will not be a happy couple if you criticize each other. It will make you feel like you are not being accepted and it will ruin your self-esteem. It’s okay if you receive constructive criticism but it should not be too often.
No Dating
Media Source
A reason for breaking up is not going on dates. Even if you are together, dating is fun and it helps you have a better relationship. If you feel like your partner is taking you for granted and is not trying to make you feel special, then you should talk before thinking about breaking up.
Compromising
Media Source
A relationship is going great when the both of you are team players. Compromising is very important if you want to make it work, especially if you like different things. If you love your partner and even if you are stubborn, you should let them have it their way so that they feel respected and involved.
